Leaving your marriage?

Only 10% of people who leave their marriage end up marrying the person with whom they had an affair.

Heated arguments

In an argument with your partner, when your heart rate goes over 100 beats per minute, you are incapable of hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.

Lesbians anyone?

50% of men claim they would feel comfortable if their girlfriend had a lesbian lover.

Lustful men

The average man sees five women a day with whom he would like to sleep with.

Friends are important

40% of women would consider dumping a boyfriend if her friends didn’t like him.

One hour

The time it takes for a woman to determine whether or not she wants to date a man again.

15 minutes

The time it takes for a man to determine whether or not he wants to date a woman again.

Wednesday

The best day for a first date according to 41% of singles.

Goodbye kisses

Studies indicate that a man who kisses his wife goodbye when he leaves for work averages a higher income than the guy who doesn’t do that. Husbands who show affection are said to be more stable and methodical, and thus, end up receiving bigger pay checks.

French connection

What is known as a French Kiss in the English speaking world is called an English Kiss in France.

Chocolate love

Chocolate contains phenyl ethylamine, a natural substance that is believed to stimulate the same reaction in the body as falling in love.

Facing copulation

Humans are the only species that copulate face to face.

Words per day

On an average, women say over 7,000 words per day. Men manage just over 2,000.

The large cell

The largest cell in the human body is the ovum, or the egg cell. It is about 1/180 inch in diameter. The smallest cell in the human body is the male sperm. It takes 175,000 sperms to weigh as much as a single egg cell.

Sifa halisi za mwanamke wa kweli

Sifa halisi za mwanamke wa kweli


1. Ni nguvu ya mwanaume
 8. Chanzo cha baraka ya familia
2. Ni jasiri
3. Mchapakazi
4. Mwenye kujiamini
5. Tegemeo la familia
6. Mwalimu wa watoto na familia yake kiujumla
7. Mlinzi wa mwanaume. .
9. Adui wa maadui wa familia.
10. Sauti ya familia.
11. Mponyaji wa familia yake na taifa.
12. Mlezi wa huduma.
13. Mkombozi wa familia na taifa.
14. Msaidizi wa Mungu tumfanyie msaidizi wa kufanana naye.
15. Mwombezi wa familia, huduma na taifa.
16. Mwenye hofu ya  Mungu

Signs of health relationship

 You don’t have to see each other every day;If you can, then why not? But you don’t have to nag each other about you or your partner coming over just because you haven’t seen a glimpse of each other for the day (yet). For long-distance relationships, if you can insert that five-minute Face Time before you head for work (and before he hits the sack), then great. However, you don’t feel it a requirement for you to start your day right and for him to cap his day off with it.

 And this isn't about not making time for seeing each other, it’s just that you've reached a point in your relationship when you've realized the difference about being there and being clingy. Minus the Skype, Face Time and whatever video call apps you use, you are present. And he knows that.

You don’t have to update each other of the most minute of details;like if you've already eaten, what you had for lunch, etc. every. single. day. You aren't absorbed in the world you've created just for you and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend coexists with all the other characters and elements of your world. He’s a part of it  maybe a major part of it  but not it.

You don’t impose your friends to be his friends and vice versa;If they can be friends by themselves without your pushing and shoving them together, wouldn't that be a bonus? But you respect both your guy and your friends and know that how you relate to his friends (or how he does to yours) isn't an area where anyone could pass a judgment to your compatibility as a couple.

You don’t (try to) impress each other with the most expensive of gifts;If both of you can afford it is a different story. What I’m saying is there are some couples who spoil each other (or just the other) with very pricey items when that single present already equates to a month’s total of his or her net pay. You've reached a maturity with finances and both of you would rather plan on your anniversary getaway or a major investment for your future.

You don’t torture yourself with boredom to death by pretending to like what he likes;Your guy enjoys video games; you enjoy your books. Your guy enjoys outdoor sports; you enjoy a cup of coffee in your little nook. He listens to pop music; you worship The Script. While you give a chance for each other to get a peek of your world, you don’t force him into being in yours.

You don’t care what he sees anymore when you’re without makeup and/or fresh from slumber; You’re past those days when you thought that you always have to put your ‘best face’ forward. You've become comfortable with being all natural. You've seen your beauty without makeup in his eyes.

You don’t support him in all his rants and complaints about the world;When he needs a good sermon, it’s you he hears it from. If he’s wrong, you tell him. There’s no sugarcoating when you think he needs a slap of reality. You don’t condone his wrong acts, you correct him. You don’t feed him with false “it’s okay”s.

 

You don’t act like a curfew officer anymore;

You know he’s going to have to make some time for his friends and you know he’s going to have to stay some nights out. You know him well to be sure that he’s going to go home when he thinks it’s time. And you respect his judgment of “it’s time”.

You talk about the specifics of the future; 

...10 years, 20 years from now. You share dreams of tomorrow. You see him in the big scenes of what lies ahead. You see him as your partner in accomplishing these dreams.

No buts, no ifs. He is your ally;Whatever, whenever, wherever. It’s always going to be you and him against the world. You can take on whatever life throws at you because you know he will always be somewhere there — either holding your hand before that big jump or just an inch behind you as you take that most dangerous step that you have to take by yourself. But you’re never really alone in the most literal sense; you will always have a sidekick.

You value his thoughts. He values yours;He has a say on the major changes in your life so as he does to those in yours. His opinion is taken in earnest because you know he’s one of the few people in the world who would sincerely and selflessly want the best for you. He would give it to you straight and simple. Sometimes, his thoughts would open you up to new wavelengths of thinking, make you affirm those thoughts that you already hold or make you totally say no to some that you haven’t been sure about.

You don’t really see or consider him as a boyfriend anymore;He has become more like a brother? Err. No. He’s more like a brother and lover combined. He’s somewhere between those two. Not a brother, no longer a boyfriend, not yet a husband. LIFE MATE? That’s more like it.

Are you dating a tomboy? Know these things!

Tomboys may be more fun than girly girls, but they are not very easy to understand. It could be pretty tricky to date one as their choices and hobbies will be completely different from those you have dated before.Here’s what you need to know about dating a tomboy.

Indulge her hobbies:

Unlike girlie girls, who talk nineteen-to-the-dozen about looks, make-up and DRESSES, the tomboys will be more into sports, geeky gadgets and tech stuff. Indulge her! Isn’t it the best thing to have happened to you? You get to hang out with a chick who likes things that you like! Even if she is a cocky know-it-all, you’ll have a great time.

Don’t expect knight in shining armour moments:

She is as tough as she looks…maybe even more. So don’t wait for her to call you when she is stuck in the middle of nowhere. She will figure out a way and won’t bother you with her sob stories. If you’re a tough man who wants his woman to be a weakling, dating a tomboy isn’t a good idea for you.

Play with her competitive streaks:

She will get a rush out of you playing with her competitive streak than you complementing her on her sleek new boots. If she is a football fan…tease, prod and debate with her. Argue till you both are exhausted and crying tears of joy!

She is a girl, don’t forget that!

She may be tough and rough. But she is a girl, don’t ever forget that. She will also be PMSing, get emotional and love the little things in life. Being a tomboy doesn’t mean that she won’t get hurt, upset and lost. Let her know this without patronizing her.

Don’t ask her to change:

You like her for who she is. And when you started dating her, you know what you had signed up for. So don’t ask her to change into a ‘girl’ just because you’re threatened by her personality. Think of all the fun you have and the edgy energy she brings to your life.

Knowing you are in Love With The Right person

Once you’re in love with someone, it’s hard to remember how you lived without him or her. Of course, you were alive before you met this person, but you really didn’t start “living” until the two of you met. I remember when I first fell in love with my girlfriend; it was a very scary feeling, as I had managed to elude love for the entirety of my life before her. I specifically remember the transition from when I liked her to when I began to love her. She went from being someone who made me smile to being the greatest catalyst of the happiness and joy in my life. She went from a gorgeous girl I met to the most beautiful girl I know. She went from my crush to the love of my life. Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times. Even the meaning of love is extremely subjective, but I say for certain that anyone who’s experienced it knows it’s the best feeling ever.

 Here are ways to know if you might be in love — rather than in like — with someone:

The first person you think about; your love will be the first person you think about when you wake up and the last person you think about before you go to sleep. When something good happens to you, this is the first person you want to tell. When something bad happens to you, you look to this person for support.

The best part of your day; As Childish Gambino said, “When I’m alone, I’d rather be with you.” Seeing my girlfriend is always the highlight of my day. If you really love someone, you never truly get tired of him or her. No matter how great your day might be going, your special person will make it better. When you just like someone, he or she might make your day better, but probably isn’t the best part.

Prioritize above your own needs Love is selfless. I was the most important person in my world until I met my girlfriend. Once I fell in love with her, her needs became much more important than my own. This is just how love is. Your needs always seem trivial in comparison to your significant other’s needs.

You’d do anything; If I tried to construct a list of things I wouldn’t do for my girlfriend, the list would be pretty empty. When you’re in love with someone, you do whatever you can to make the person happy. When you like someone, you may feel like there is a lot you would do for the person, but you have your limits. True love knows no limits.

You love the imperfections; My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl I know, but she does have some imperfections. But, to me, they’re not imperfections — they’re unique qualities and things I love. When I tease her about them, she thinks I am making fun of her, but I am truly just admiring them. Love is the ability to know and accept someone’s faults. You may know the imperfections of a person you like, but having the capacity to embrace them likely won’t happen unless you fall in love.

You are never afraid to express your feelings in public; I have this semi-bad habit of telling the world how in love I am with my girlfriend. When you’re truly in love, you want everyone to know. You are not bashful about your feelings by any means. When you like someone, there is a lot of holding back on how you feel.

You think long-term When you’re in love with someone, it’s hard to imagine a future without the person in it. For this reason, you will think long-term about how you can build a life with this person. You won’t give in to short-term temptations that might mess up your long-term goals. When you just like someone, thinking long-term can be pretty scary.

You become a better person No one is perfect; we all have room for improvement. But, being in love will force you to work on these things. You want to become the best version of yourself for the person you love. I am a better person now than I was before I met my girlfriend.

Your feelings are unconditional when you love someone unconditionally, it means that your love knows no conditions and is absolute. I don’t actually like the term “unconditional love” because I think it’s redundant — I believe all true love is unconditional. When you like someone, your feelings change depending on the condition.

Your love is your best friend; I believe this to be true for most people who fall in love. Your significant other becomes your partner in crime. You feel like, together, you can take on the world.